Dear Esther,
Thank you for your strength in telling your story. I know that my wife must feel the same way because of my behavior. Your note about self-esteem is extremely important. May your strength continue and the fruits be realized by your children. You have great strength.

I came upon this website because of an Israel National News (Arutz-7) item. I've made many promises to myself in the past, to stop this addiction and get on with my life and my wife! Unfortunately, doing it alone does not work. As before, whenever I make that sort of pledge I then suffer a tremendous backfire and seek more porn.

Because of your story and the pain you have revealed to us, I've now downloaded a porn filter and will ask my wife's assistance to institute a filter that needs her approval. I know I need help, from Hashem and from my life partner.

Thank you, with all of my heart. With G-d's help I and others will overcome this sickness that threatens the very essence of the vows we make so seriously under the chupah.